SPOILER ALERT: Don’t read this post if you haven’t seen, or don’t want to know, details from the movie Past Lives (available to rent/buy on VOD).

Na Young (AKA Nora) and Hae Sung, two deeply connected childhood friends, are wrested apart when Nora’s family emigrates from South Korea to Canada. Twenty-four years later, they’re reunited in NYC for one fateful week as they confront notions of love and destiny. -Synopsis

As fans of HBO’s Girls (2012-2017) may recall, Greta Lee played Soojin (an artist’s asst/frenemy of Marnie) in 4 eps (S2-S3). Adam Driver (Adam Sackler on Girls) and Lee were photographed chatting at the Gotham Awards after-party last Fall in NYC. They’re both 40, have worked in NYC theaters, and played younger characters. Past Lives is a beautiful (inside and out) indie drama written/directed by Celine Song (a 1st time director). This film (produced by A24) won the National Society of Film Critics Best Picture award. Like Nora (Lee), Song moved w/ her parents from Korea to Canada; her father was a filmmaker. She later settled in the US, worked as a playwright, and married a Jewish/American writer- Justin Kuritzkes. This story is based on Song’s real life, BUT w/ “dramatic moments added” (as she explained).

Arthur [to Nora]:  You dream in a language I can’t understand. It’s like there’s this whole place inside you I can’t go.

In a profile of Lee in the NYT on May 30, 2023, Song said she tried to keep the 2 leads separated (as much as possible) to help the scenes when Nora and Hae Sung finally meet in person after a long separation. This film is in BOTH Korean and English; director Bong Joon Ho’s American interpreter helped Lee improve her skills in Korean. Yoo (42 y.o.) speaks fluent English, along w/ 3 other languages; he was born/raised in Germany and studied in the US (Lee Strasberg Inst). Song also did not let Yoo and John Magaro (Arthur- Nora’s husband) meet before shooting. When Hae Sung and Arthur meet each other for the 1st time, it’s the same for the actors. The shot that was eventually in the movie ended up being the 1st take. Magaro (40 y.o.) is mainly an indie movie/theater actor who often plays New Yorkers (w/ a V believable accent). As some critics commented, Arthur understands the appeal seeing how handsome Hae Sung looks.

Nora [to Hae Sung]: Getting married is hard for idealistic people like you.

Nora and Hae Sung (an engineer who is hesitant re: marriage) spend a few days together in NYC; they walk, talk, and visit some tourist attractions. Though they barely hug or touch, we sense some tension (romantic potential). One night, they’re joined by Arthur at an East Village bar. Nora (who sits btwn the 2 men) finds herself in the role of interpreter and intermediary btwn 2 cultures. Unlike many modern movies, Past Lives is restrained, understated, and effectively uses silence. Perhaps most refreshing- it doesn’t play into melodrama and Hollywood stereotypes, esp. w/ the “love triangle.” Some viewers were reminded of Richard Linklater’s Before trilogy (w/ Ethan Hawke and Julie Delpy). I loved this film- and yes- I did cry!

At 40, it’s strange to be called a breakthrough actor. I’ve been doing this for 20 yrs! -Greta Lee

[1] The actors who play the sweethearts as adults, Greta Lee and Teo Yoo, are both exceptional, but it’s Lee who creates the most fascinating character. […]

The movie is also a sensitive look at what it feels like to be an immigrant, torn between two cultures, and not sure whether the nostalgia you feel is what you really want or just the allure of the familiar.

[2] Such a touching film, but at the same time, never cloying, because the script and direction from Celine Song were so wonderfully restrained. […] The characters were beautifully drawn and didn’t devolve into cliches, an example of which was the husband who gave a master class in being understanding and supportive. Beautiful cinematography too. Definitely one to see.

[3] A simple plot becomes a richly complex story of lost love, sought closure, and found purpose; and it’s all due to Celine Song having the proper understanding of when to allow silence to speak.

Yet despite the frequent bouts of silence, not a moment feels wasted. Every shot and sentence is meticulously edited to give us exactly what we need to feel each moment with its full emotional power.

-Excerpts from IMDb reviews