Help! I Wanna Get Offline (DC & beyond)

City Girls DC

What to say re: this (expanding) social group!? They have something for everybody… incl. monthly events where men also attend. I went (less than a month ago) and am already having a FAB time! City Girls DC (formerly City Girls Who Walk) just celebrated its 3rd anniversary. I went to the DC Indie Book Crawl w/ one of its (many) sub-groups- Sci-Fi Fantasy Book Club; the ladies were welcoming, bubbly, and V smart. Later that same day, I went to a (free) Cardio Dance class at Equinox (Georgetown)- I survived (LOL)! This week, I’m going to see “Sister Act”- the ticket was V affordable. You can join their Discord server (IF I can figure it out, then anyone can) or sign up for the newsletter. There are sub-groups for ladies over 35, so y’all other mature gals need NOT worry!

Outerly

Do you enjoy long/leisurely walks, BUT also want to meet new peeps? Outerly (founded by Kay- a young WOC) will match you up w/ 4-8 fellow walkers to explore an area of your city; it is available now in Baltimore & DC. I have gone on one of their walks (late in Fall 2024) which ended at Malcolm X (Meridian Hill) Park. FYI: There were MANY attendees in their 20s, but also some in 30s and above. This is a V affordable option to meet new ppl!

Timeleft

Are you called the “foodie” in your circle of (current) pals? Then, I suggest checking out Timeleft dinners (held each WED night at 7PM all over the world in major cities) where you can meet 5 strangers (or potential friends) in your age group w/ similar personalities. Everyone I met was nice; half of the attendees had been to these dinners before (in other cities)! I have gone 2X (Fall 2024), but plan to go again in the near future.

“A Streetcar Named Desire” (BAM) starring Paul Mescal, Patsy Ferran, & Anjana Vasan

On FRI, March 14th, I went (for the 1st time) to Brooklyn Academy of Music (BAM) to see Tennessee Williams’ iconic play- A Streetcar Named Desire. The area was buzzing (w/ a LOT of tourists and locals); the Harvey Theatre is a few blocks away from the Barclays Center. If you haven’t visited NYC recently, the Atlantic Avenue subway station is now called Atlantic Avenue–Barclays Center (2, 3, 4, 5, B, Q, D, N R, & W trains). The crowd was more diverse than I expected; there were (as expected) many young women in their 20s, incl. WOC. There were also quite a few older (perhaps regulars) aged 50+, as in my row. I booked long in advance, so I was able to get good seat.

This critically-acclaimed production (directed by Rebecca Frecknall) was transferred from across the pond- London’s West End. This director emphasized the growing power of patriarchy w/ the way she chose to stage this play, one critic said. Stanley Kowalski is played by Paul Mescal, a 29 y.o. a blue-eyed Irish actor and one of the rising stars in Hollywood. Mescal appeared in the TV drama/romance Normal People, indie movies (Aftersun; All of Us Strangers), and Ridley Scott’s big-budget sequel (Gladiator II). The staging was open and design was V simple; there are few furnishings in the Kowalski home. On one side of the stage, there are stairs which go up to the balcony. This production includes (brief) interludes w/ dance and music. Water comes down to shower the actors in two pivotal moments. I thought the way lighting design was quite effective.

I know what some of y’all are thinking… Is Mescal as cute and fit IRL? Yes, he looks V good (though not a fan of this modern mullet); he has (well-defined) arms and abs, long after Gladiator. Stanley (a model of toxic masculinity) isn’t TOO bothered w/ the concerns/needs of women around him. He cares about bowling and poker nights w/ his buddies. His wife, Stella, is played by a lovely/wide-eyed British Asian (South Asian- as in US) actress- Anjana Vasan (37 y.o.) Patsy Ferran (34 y.o.) is an unexpected choice for Blanche DuBois, at least when it comes to looks. She has already won Olivier and Drama Desk awards. These actresses look much younger than their ages!

I don’t want realism, I want magic! -Blanche DuBois

Wow, what a show- I was V impressed! Mescal and Vasan made a believable (yet problematic) couple in love. I’m sure many of you are aware of the dark (serious) themes/events of the play. There is tension growing w/ each scene bwtn Mescal and Ferran (slim/petite w/ dark hair and eyes), as Blanche (obviously) disapproves of Stanley. Ferran goes toe-to-toe w/ Mescal (who is transformed- in part to American accent/body language); she reveals emotional vulnerability in one moment, after charming us w/ her wit/intelligence. The audience was captivated more… and more… as the play went on. When Stanley slaps Stella (who is pregnant), it was a big shock (esp. for those who didn’t read the play/see the Brando movie). In the climax, when Blanche grabs a beer bottle to defend herself against Stanley, a woman in front of me whispered “it’s not real” to her mom. In the finale, Stanley crouches down and embraces Stella, who is cryng/distraught on the floor. One of Mescal’s pale/powerful arm wraps around Vasan’s upper body, showing that (in the world of this play) Stanley has truly won!

[1] Lines that I could recite alongside the actors resonated in ways that I never expected. The great majority of them are spoken by Ferran, who triumphs where such incandescent talents as Jessica Lange, Blanchett and Natasha Richardson could find only sporadic magic. […]

What sets Ferran apart is the way she balances the play’s poetry and realism, moving with lightning reflexes from crushing naturalism to bold expressionism. …Ferran, a Spanish British actress, is completely fluent in the playwright’s grand, streetwise lyricism. Accent and idiom are firmly in command as she transitions from Southern Gothic to surrealist horror, never losing sight of a character who’s as fragile as she is formidable.

-LA Times

[2] The playwright’s identification with Blanche, reflected in her care with words, is all but drowned out. We are not invited to inhabit her hopes and fears but rather her brother-in-law’s animal glee.

This is certainly a way to see “Streetcar”; the world is, if possible, even meaner than Williams imagined. Decay has swallowed lyricism. And Stanley, we now know, has won.

NYT

“Hold on to Me Darling” at The Lucille Lortel Theatre (NYC): OCT 16th-DEC 22nd

On learning of his mother’s death, country music icon Strings McCrane (Adam Driver) finds himself in an existential tailspin. The only way out, he decides, is to abandon superstardom in favor of the simple life, so he moves back to his hometown in Tennessee. The simple life turns out to be anything but simple in this brilliantly observed tragicomedy, as the consequences of Strings’ success and mind-bending effects of his fame prove all but impossible to outrun. -Synopsis

Hey y’all, I had a FAB wknd in NYC!!! On SAT night, I saw Adam Driver (my current fave actor, as regular readers know) in the play Hold on to Me Darling (written by Kenneth Lonergan)! The play has a limited engagement at The Lucille Lortel Theatre (West Village) until DEC 22nd; I set a reminder, got in the (online) queue, and (luckily) got my ticket in early AUG. In the past, Timothy Olyphant (Deadwood; Justified) played the lead role of country singer/actor Strings McCrane. Twitter was abuzz (earlier this Fall) after seeing a few photos of Olyphant in the role (incl. ones where he is wearing black boxers and socks). OMG, how was Adam going to look (some of us wondered)!? And more importantly, how were we super-fans (AKA rats) going to handle seeing him in-person!?

Let’s get the important stuff out of the way: Adam really is that tall (so towers over the supporting cast) and looks as (uniquely) gorgeous as in photos/movies. His hair is V dark/ thick; he is BOTH wide (note the shoulders) and slim (see waistline). Early in the 1st act, Strings strips down to his boxers and socks before getting a massage from Nancy (Heather Burns). Yup, Adam still has 6-pack abs! As the stage is small, he looms large as a (physical) presence and w/ (deep/baritone) voice. Strings has a Southern accent; fans/viewers from the region commented (online) that Adam did a good job w/ it. He plays the guitar, but Strings is TOO upset to sing much.

The story involves grief, regret, unresolved family issues, a love triangle, and the toxicity of fame (incl. loss of privacy and disconnection from everyday ppl). This play is V well-suited to Adam, as he shows his range; Strings goes from loud/domineering to more quiet/vulnerable (w/o missing a beat). Strings can be charming, yet also self-centered (after being a celeb so long). Adam is in every scene of the 2 act play, aside from one, in the 2 hr. 45 mins. play (which I thought was a BIT too long). Strings wants to regain closeness w/ his older brother, Duke (C.J. Wilson), a working-class family man who still lives in their hometown. He is reunited w/ his 2nd cousin twice removed, Essie (Adelaide Clemens), at his mother’s funeral; this actress has a strong resemblance to Michelle Williams. Essie was a close friend to this mom in recent yrs, so feels her loss deeply.

There are meta moments, such as Strings complaining to his assistant Jimmy (Keith Nobbs) re: “this goddamn space movie” he needs to shoot soon in Kansas City. When Rian Johnson (director of Star Wars: The Last Jedi) saw the play in previews, he laughed out loud at that line. There are many funny lines; I didn’t expect to laugh so much! Nancy compares Strings to a “sad, dark prince” (a la Kylo Ren); a viewer who saw the (previous) play wrote: “Lonergan changed a few lines to fit Adam.” In the final scene, we meet a (hitherto unseen) character named Mitch (Frank Wood); he and Strings have an emotional/powerful conversation (which made me a BIT teary). If you want to see more (incl. 2 vids I took at the stage door), then go to my Twitter/X account (knightleyemma)!

Links to Reviews:

Deadline

The Guardian

Vogue

Vulture

Blog & Life Update: May 2024

Hey y’all,

How was the Spring season (aside from allergies)? I can’t believe HOW fast the time is going in 2024- it’s almost Summer! I recently went to NYC for a cousin’s wedding; I have a LOT of family who are now settled in various neighborhoods of Queens. Yes, I still love NYC, though a LOT has changed since I lived there (2005-2009)! I’ve finally passed 700,000 hits on the blog; it took quite some time.

There is some sad news: one of my regular readers passed away in April; she was ONLY in her mid-50s. Susan (AKA Servetus) was a college prof/well-known online for being active in the Richard Armitage fandom; she commented on my blog 1st in 2013. Susan had her own blog (focused on RA); she was V smart, thoughtful, and a great writer.

I’m NOT feeling like my usual self for few weeks now; maybe I should look for ways to get out of the “lazy girl era” (as the Young’uns says)! Aging is NOT fun- just ask anyone over 40. I’m really behind on my posts, BUT hope to catch up soon! Thanks for reading (& subscribing) to my blog.

Best wishes,

EMMA.

CURRENTLY WATCHING:

The Crown: Season 4 (Netflix)

Mary & George (STARZ)

UPCOMING REVIEWS (Movies):

The Best Years of Our Lives (1946)

The Caine Mutiny Court-Martial (1988 & 2023)

Challengers (2024)

Dune (1984)

Dune: Part Two (2023)

Ferrari (2023)

God’s Own Country (2017)

Poor Things (2023)

Two Films of Luca Guadagnino: I Am Love (2009) & A Bigger Splash (2015)

Victor Frankenstein (2015)

UPCOMING REVIEWS (Streaming Shows):

Bridgerton: Season 3 – Part I (Netflix)

Ripley (Netflix)

2024 To Be Read (TBR) List

Introduction

Thanks for following/reading my blog. This is the year that I got back into reading (for fun), though I didn’t finish a LOT of books. I’m a slow reader, though I was English major (LOL)! I shopped via Amazon Prime, Loyalty Books (a DMV-based indie bookstore), and Thrift Books (a web site w/ a wide selection). There were a LOT of “Reylo” (the shipper name for Rey + Kylo Ren) books published in pandemic life (2020-2023). On Reddit, some Adam Driver (AD) fans have a weekly book club; this also motivates me to read. I’ve been following a few gals who are “BookTubers;” they put reviews on YT.

Currently Reading: Fall/Winter 2023

  1. Loathe to Love You (Ali Hazelwood) – 3 stories in 1 novel; for modern rom com fans
  2. The Love Hypothesis (Ali Hazelwood) – Reddit AD fans are reading; one of the many Reylo books.
  3. The Lives of Robert Ryan (J.A. Jones) – For classic movie (esp. film noir) fans.
  4. Love in the Afternoon (Lisa Kleypas) – Almost done reading; historical romance.
  5. Where Dreams Begin (Lisa Kleypas) – I’m in the middle of the story; historical romance.
  6. Heat 2: A Novel (Michael Mann; Meg Gardiner) – Reddit AD fans book club.

TBR 2024

  1. The Method: How the Twentieth Century Learned to Act (Isaac Butler)
  2. The Hurricane Wars (Thea Guanzon) – Reylo/romance/fantasy (dedicated to “rats” AKA AD fans).
  3. Book Lovers (Emily Henry) – From my mom’s book club.
  4. Cruel Beauty (Rosamund Hodge)Beauty and the Beast retelling.
  5. Thief of Shadows (Elizabeth Hoyt) – Historical/Regency romance.
  6. Yellowface (R.F. Kuang) – Another from my mom’s book club.
  7. A Promise of Darkness (Bec McMaster) – Reylo book; 1st of Dark Court Rising series.
  8. Madly, Deeply: The Diaries of Alan Rickman (Alan Rickman; Rima Horton)
  9. Seven Plays (Sam Shepard; Richard Gelman)
  10. The Outsider (Penelope Williamson) – Historical/Western romance.

What are your fave books? Do you have a preferred genre?

Happy holidays (OR happy Winter break) to ALL!

-EMMA