Tag: Friendship
From the Terrace (1960) starring Paul Newman & Joanne Woodward
Alcoholism, dysfunctional families, romance, infidelity (w/ its gendered double-standards), and America’s obsession w/ money and power are the main themes in this (ahead of it’s time) melodrama. I watched it last night (on Netflix); of course, Paul Newman and Joanne Woodward (who were married for 2 years at that time) were the draw. Wow, if you want to see some HOT onscreen chemistry, check out their scenes together (first half of the film)! As for Newman, he’s the definition of Hollywood’s total package (looks, presence, talent, the ability to be both humorous and serious, etc.)
In 1946, Aflred Eaton (Newman) returns to suburban Philly after serving in the Navy (WWII) to the loving arms of… his household staff. His parents checked out long ago. His father (Leon James) puts all his heart into his steel mill and mourning someone who will never return. His mother (Myrna Loy) has turned to alcohol and another man. A private nurse lives with her- a great shock to Alfred. As his best pal, Alex Porter (a young and dapper George Grizzard), says he “needs to get out of that house” and their expectations. Like many young folks, Alfred heads to NYC.
In a few months time, Alfred falls in love with Mary St. John (platinum-haired Woodward), a blue blood from Delaware. She is engaged to another man and her parents would not approve of Alfred’s “qualifications,” Alex quickly explains. “There are all types of qualifications,” Alfred slyly retorts. After winning Mary’s hand, he starts working with Alex on designing/selling small planes on Long Island, but grows tired of being left out of the decision-making. (The business was financed by the Porter family.) An accident of chance propels Alfred into the society, then business, of one of the wealthiest financiers on the East Coast. Alfred throws himself into his work, repeating his father’s mistake, and neglects Mary (not content to sit at home alone in their fancy Manhattan apartment).
Top 10 Moments from Selma (NOW PLAYING)
NOTE: This post contains mild SPOILERS.
10) J. Edgar Hoover (Dylan Baker) tells President Lyndon B. Johnson (Tom Wilkinson) that the FBI can create a wedge in the family of MLK, Jr. (David Oyelowo).
9) Coretta Scott King (Carmen Ejogo) quietly meets with Malcolm X in a church. He offers assistance to the movement.
8) Annie Lee Cooper (Oprah Winfrey) punches out a policeman who violently lay hands on her in front of the Selma courthouse.
7) LBJ tells Governor George Wallace (Tim Roth) that “no way in Hell” will he be on the same page as the backward-thinking man when it comes to history.
6) Coretta confronts Martin about her fears and insecurities, including the other women in his life.
5) Rev. Reeve, a white Episcopal priest from Boston, is attacked by a group of young (also white) men. (I didn’t know about this event before!)
4) The prayer on the Edmund Pettis Bridge- a silent, BUT powerful moment.
3) Some little girls in their Sunday best discussing Coretta’s hair before the church bombing (of the 16th Street Church in Birmingham).
2) Amelia Boynton’s “you are already prepared” speech to Coretta- VERY well-written, touching, and inspiring! (Ms. Boynton is still alive at age 103! She’ll be a guest of honor on Tuesday night’s State of the Union speech.)
1) MLK, Jr.’s emotionally-charged speech at Jimmie Lee Jackson’s funeral. (Jimmy, an unarmed black man, was shot and killed by a state trooper in a diner. This was witnessed by his mother and elderly grandfather.)
Being Mary Jane (Season 1)
SPOILERS: Don’t read this review if you have not yet seen or don’t want to know details from Season 1 of the BET drama series Being Mary Jane.
I discovered this fabulous TV show 2 weeks ago (thanks to Netflix), and binged watch the pilot movie and 1st season over 3 days! Being Mary Jane is set in Atlanta and centers on an ambitious, gorgeous, and very complicated (therefore relateable) TV talk show host named Mary Jane Paul (Gabrielle Union). She’s in her mid-30s, black, and has never been married- VERY common in the U.S in our modern times. Women of color will be (especially) able to relate to this show.
Hey, it’s not ALL about glitz and guys (as may seem from the ads). Aside from two loves- the fallen family man, Andre (Omari Hardwick) and IT entrepreneur, David (Stephen Bishop), Mary Jane (real name: Pauletta Patterson) has to juggle a complicated (extended) family, close girlfriends, a closeted gay pal, among others. The supporting characters add flavor to this multifaceted drama.
In the movie pilot, Mary Jane discovers that the man she’s been seeing for the last several months (and fallen in love with) is already married when she steps on his wedding band while retrieving his clothes- how awful! She promptly kicks Andre out of her house and turns the water hose on him- kinda funny. This sets the tone of the show- you rarely get what you expect.
At work, Mary Jane has a strong alliance with her executive producer, Kara (Lisa Vidal), a powerful Latina in her 40s. Her time-consuming job has taken a toll on her marriage, causing much regret. These BFFs talk about everything, no matter how uncomfortable! They have a long-term plan to gain more power, so that they can present stories they feel are more socially relevant. Kara is tough because she has to be, but when it comes to her two sons, she can get emotional. In one ep, she admits that her ex-husband, John, is the better parent.
Mary Jane has been a positive role model to the teenaged Niecy (Raven Goodwin), the eldest daughter of her older brother, Patrick (Richard Brooks). However, Niecy has a serious self-esteem problem (considers herself to be ugly) and pregnant with her second child. When she confesses that the father is her Filipino-American boyfriend, Dante, Patrick comments how these [immigrant] boys are “trying so hard to be thugs” to fit in with the black kids.
Mary Jane gets Niecy an appointment with her close/long-time friend, Dr. Lisa Hudson (Latarsha Rose), a sought-after OB-GYN (ironically celibate). Lisa has a tendency toward depressive moods, though she’s religious (referring to God and The Bible on several occasions). Like Mary Jane, she’s also single and has a lovely house all to herself.
Patrick (a recovering cocaine addict), his white/much younger girlfriend Tracy, and their young kids have been living in the family home for the last three years. He helps his mother keep track of all her meds. Patrick, a rather stoic man who once managed the hottest club in town, even provides some relationship advice to Mary Jane.
The “baby” (and future hope) of the family is Mary Jane’s younger brother, Paul Jr, a cute, smart and charming college student in his mid-20s. It boggles the mind that he is selling drugs on the side, until he explains wanting pay back his parents for the tuition, room, and board they’ve provided. In on ep, he gets legal help via Andre, who’s old pals with a cop.
Aside from her neighbor/co-worker, Mark (Aaron D. Spears), Mary Jane has another male supporter- her father Paul, Sr. (veteran actor Richard Roundtree). He was in the armed forces, then a commercial pilot, and eventually the first black board member on an airline company.
In one poignant scene, Paul, Sr. softly admits to his daughter “sometimes, I wish she’d just die” about his fading wife, Helen (Margaret Avery from The Color Purple). He adds: “I hope you get to experience love like that someday.” Wow… It turns out that Helen suffers from lupus. Later on in the series, Helen laments the loss of her looks to Mary Jane (which she had so much pride in). I’ve NEVER seen any series, focusing on a single woman, that rings this true-to-life emotionally (not unlike SATC and Girls).
Today’s Special (2009)
See Aasif Mandvi before he got famous (I did- he visited an youth center where I volunteered)! While he was pretty awkward with the teens (he’s a single guy with no kids), the theatrically-trained actor has become a name in comedy, thanks to The Daily Show with Jon Stewart. Recently, he relased his funny memoir- No Land’s Man.
Mandvi recently commented that the romance was tacked on to market the story, but it’s essentially a story about dealing with your past (in this case, one’s heritage and father) in order to move forward in life. NYC-based sous chef Samir (Mandvi) is passed over for a much-anticipated promotion by his egotistical boss/chef, Steve (Dean Winters of Oz and SVU fame). He goes back to check out how things are going in the family restaurant (Tandoori Palace) in the old ‘hood. This film was mainly shot inside an Indian restaurant in my old ‘hood (Jackson Heights, Queens) in the Summer of 2008. (I noticed that there was a covering around it for a few days, with a few young PAs hanging about.) His father Hakim (Harish Patel, an Indian TV star) is shocked to see Samir out of the blue. Suddenly, a health issue forces Hakim to rest at home, and Samir takes over the restaurant.
Samir, who knows nothing re: Indian food, luckily meets Akbar (Naseeruddin Shah, a veteran of international cinema)- a horrid taxi driver but masterful chef. Shah steals the film with his charm, humor, and laid-back style. Rarely has an elderly desi man been so cool! This is one father-figure that understands Samir easily, unlike his own dad.
Ironically, actress/cookbook author Madhur Jaffrey (mother of Mandv’is close pal, Sakina) does no cooking here! (Sakina Jaffrey played the VP on House of Cards recently.) She plays Samir’s matchmaking mom, Farida, who sets him up on dates w/ Indian-American women via an online database (like Shaadi.com). LOL… or is this getting TOO real for some of you? There are some touching scenes in this film, aside from the relatable comedy (esp. for desi Muslims out there). Check this film (on Netflix now) out ASAP!
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