Islam is not a race, yet Islamophobia partakes of racist characteristics. Most Muslims do not “choose” Islam in the way that they choose to become doctors or lawyers, nor even in the way that they choose to become fans of Coldplay or Radiohead. Most Muslims, like people of any faith, are born into their religion. They then evolve their own relationship with it, their own, individual, view of life, their own micro-religion, so to speak.
Variations among believers:
There are more than a billion variations of lived belief among people who define themselves as Muslim – one for each human being, just as there are among those who describe themselves as Christian, or Buddhist, or Hindu. Islamophobia represents a refusal to acknowledge these variations, to acknowledge individual humanities, a desire to paint members of a perceived group with the same brush. In that sense, it is indeed like racism. It simultaneously credits Muslims with too much and too little agency: too much agency in choosing their religion, and too little in choosing what to make of it.
Lived religion is a very different thing from strict textual analysis. Very few people of any faith live their lives as literalist interpretations of scripture. Many people have little or no knowledge of scripture at all. Many others who have more knowledge choose to interpret what they know in ways that are convenient, or that fit their own moral sense of what is good. Still others view their religion as a kind of self-accepted ethnicity, but live lives utterly divorced from any sense of faith.
On women and Islam:
I have female relatives my age who cover their heads, others who wear mini-skirts, some who are university professors or run businesses, others who choose rarely to leave their homes. I suspect if you were to ask them their religion, all would say “Islam”. But if you were to use that term to define their politics, careers, or social values, you would struggle to come up with a coherent, unified view.
Stereoptypes of Muslim men:
In my early 20s, I remember being seated next to a pretty Frenchwoman at a friend’s birthday dinner in Manila. Shortly after we were introduced, and seemingly unconnected with any pre-existing strand of conversation, she proclaimed to the table: “I’d never marry a Muslim man.” “It’s a little soon for us to be discussing marriage,” I joked. But I was annoyed. (Perhaps even disappointed, it occurs to me now, since I still recall the incident almost two decades later.) In the cosmopolitan bit of pre-9/11 America where I then lived, local norms of politeness meant that I’d never before heard such a remark, however widely held the woman’s sentiments might have been.
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Well, NOT all ppl are as sensitive/educated as YOU are! The worst thing (that happened to me) was when I visited a good gal pal’s ritzy hometown for a weekend & her mom (a Hindu woman w/ her own successful business) asked me (w/ V serious face/tone): “So how does your father feel about 9/11? Does he think it was right?” OMG, I’ll never forget that! (I didn’t tell my friend, of course.) Sometimes, OTHER people of color say insensitive stuff, too!
OMG. What can you even say.
Well, my dad & FEW other relatives/older folks said that back when they were young, Hindus, Muslims, & other religions usually lived near each other (esp. in urban areas of South Asian nations). So, ppl used to be neighbors, celebrate each others’ holidays, & even (GASP) intermarry! This changed when they immigrated to the US- ppl lived in the “vanilla suburbs” or kept to own little ethnic/religious groups (yes, even saw that in NYC). This preserves tradition, BUT keeps from evolving. The 2nd gen is breaking out of this mold, which is good to see.
It would be interesting to know if this wave of immigrants experiences assimilation in the ways that earlier waves did.
you’d think a lot of this stuff would be obvious but apparently it isn’t.